Self management: definition and 7 skills for leaders

Developing self-management is an introspective process. It requires an honest deep dive into your own emotional intelligence, self-control, and leadership style to discover how well you regulate yourself.It's not easy, but self-management can be learned, and it's worth doing. As you improve, you'll naturally grow as a leader. In this article, we'll cover what self-management is, why it matters, seven soft skills to develop it, and how to put those skills into practice.

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What is self-management?

Self-management is your ability to regulate your behaviors, thoughts, and emotions in a productive way. It's a core leadership skill that helps you excel in both personal and professional responsibilities, benefiting yourself and your team. Strong self-management leads to better decision-making, reduced stress, and improved productivity at work.

Effective self-management leads to better emotional intelligence by supporting your self-awareness and well-being. This means staying on top of social cues and respecting your own personal needs.

Self-management is an important leadership quality that doesn't always come naturally, but with the right tools and practice, you can develop it. Let's dive into why self-management matters and the top seven self-management skills to develop.

Why self-management matters at work

When you manage yourself well, you empower your team to do the same. Strong self-management skills help you work with greater focus, reduce stress, and stay on track to meet your goals. For leaders, this means modeling behavior that boosts team productivity and builds a culture of accountability.

For individuals, self-management opens the door to career growth and a more fulfilling workday. When you can prioritize effectively and regulate your emotions under pressure, you're better equipped to handle challenges.

Self-management benefits everyone:

• For individuals: Greater autonomy, career advancement opportunities, and less day-to-day stress

• For teams: Less oversight required, stronger collaboration, and a more efficient work environment

• For leaders: A culture of accountability and a team that can adapt to change

What are the 7 self-management skills?

Developing self-management skills requires a certain level of self-awareness; you need to know yourself before you can regulate yourself. Start slow and embrace the process, remembering that these skills are ongoing.

Skill 1. Time management

Time management is about controlling how you use your time. This means prioritizing your most important tasks first and managing your daily to-do list. A leader with good time management skills can manage their time effectively without external help.

Having good time management skills can help you stay engaged and avoid procrastination. As a leader, time management allows you to stay on top of your own work while empowering others to do the same.

Skill 2. Self motivation

Self-motivation is your ability to get motivated and plan ahead to accomplish daily tasks. It takes a certain level of personal responsibility, but practicing self-motivation can help you become more self-aware and prioritize what's important to you.

This is similar to intrinsic motivation, which comes from within. Understanding the difference helps you tap into more sustainable sources of drive:

• Intrinsic motivation: Volunteering because it makes you feel fulfilled

• External motivation: Working faster because you fear repercussions

Enjoying the work you do is an important part of staying motivated and engaged throughout your workday. Plus, liking the work you do can help you inspire your team to do their very best. To practice internal motivation, work towards goals that excite you and fuel your sense of purpose.

Skill 3. Stress management

Leaders often deal with stress and work anxiety, but to be good at self-management, you need to embody healthy stress management. Without stress management, you can suffer from overwork and, eventually, burnout.

Leaders with good stress management skills approach work in a focused manner by connecting their initiatives to larger goals. When you know which task is most important and how project deliverables are tied to team goals, you can better prioritize work and will likely feel more fulfilled doing it. Engaging with your work in this way is a form of self-care, and it can help reduce your stress levels and keep you level-headed.

Skill 4. Adaptability

Being adaptable means you have the confidence and ability to pivot when changes arise. This is especially important for leaders who work in a fast-paced environment where project changes occur often.

For example, imagine a new project comes up that's a higher priority than the one you've been working on for the last couple of weeks. Instead of becoming stressed or frustrated, you can adapt to this change and move forward with openness and curiosity. This is an important skill for maintaining flexibility.

While being adaptable may be uncomfortable at times, it can make you a great leader, as you can tackle anything that comes your way. It also empowers your team to do the same.

Skill 5. Decision making

To be effective, leaders must develop decision-making skills that reduce confusion and empower the team. Problem-solving and addressing issues can help you grow your decision-making skills.

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Like all the skills we've looked at so far, decision-making is something you can learn. Start by sharpening your critical thinking skills and learning how to analyze key information when problems arise. And use data-driven decision making to ensure your actions come from data rather than guesswork, so fewer issues will arise down the road.

Skill 6. Goal alignment

Goal alignment means prioritizing projects with the highest impact on your business. When you see the bigger picture and understand what's best for your team and organization, you generate better results and boost team morale.

Goal alignment consists of three main skills:

• Goal setting. When goal setting, be sure to identify current pain points, forecast growth objectives, and analyze your current resource allocation plans, all of which can help you set informed goals. Use the SMART goals framework to make sure your goal is specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and time-bound.

• Goal communication. Not only does this involve managing your team's goals, but it always involves aligning them to your organization's overall goals. That way, your team members understand how their work ladders up to larger objectives. This requires transparent communication and aligned teamwork.

• Goal tracking. Not only is it important to set and communicate goals, but it's also important to track them. This is critical for connecting daily work to larger goals and seeing how your team is progressing over time.

Skill 7. Personal development

Personal development is key for all team members, but especially for leaders. To build your team's knowledge, you first need to build your own. Create a professional development plan, attend workshops, take courses, and connect with industry experts to continue developing your management skills.

By continuing to develop your team management skills, you can empower your team to do the same. Not only does this mean individual career development, but it also means growth for the good of the company.

How to improve your self-management skills

Improving your self-management is an ongoing practice. Here are a few strategies to help you strengthen these skills over time:

• Identify your peak productivity hours. Pay attention to when you feel most focused and use time blocking to schedule your most important work during those times.

• Set clear boundaries. Protect your focus by limiting distractions and communicating your availability to teammates.

• Practice mindfulness. Increase your self-awareness by checking in with yourself throughout the day. Notice how you're feeling and how it might be affecting your work.

• Seek feedback. Complete a self-evaluation and ask trusted colleagues or mentors for input on how you manage your time, stress, and communication.

• Use a work management tool. Organize tasks, prioritize work, and track progress in one place. This gives you a clear view of your responsibilities and helps you stay on top of deadlines.

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Examples of self-management

Analyzing examples of self-management in the workplace can help you understand the skills you need to develop and embody healthy self-management. Here are some examples to better understand how you can empower yourself to be a better leader:

Example 1: Setting goals and aligning them to the larger picture

Team lead Daniela Vargas wants to increase returning customers by 10% this year to meet her organization's growth goals. She writes up a business case and schedules a meeting with the head of operations and product development.

During that meeting, Daniela walks the department heads through her plan to rebrand an existing product line. The leaders agree, and Daniela develops a detailed work breakdown structure to execute.

Example 2: Stress management and time allocation

Ray Brooks starts his day by going through his daily to-do list. He notices he has a few tasks to complete, an overdue task from yesterday, and a new meeting invite for a top-priority project.

Instead of becoming overwhelmed, Ray reorganizes his schedule. He realizes he can'tt get everything done that day, so he prioritizes the new project meeting and spends the rest of his day on high-priority tasks.

Rather than working all night, which would stress him out and take away from family time, Ray decides his least important tasks can wait until tomorrow.

In both of these situations, the leader made rational decisions based on what was best for themselves and their teams. They were quick to make sound decisions while considering their own well-being to achieve good results.

Build stronger self-management with the right tools

Mastering self-management helps you lead with clarity and confidence. By practicing these skills, you can connect your daily work to your most important goals and inspire your team to do their best work.

A work management platform gives you the structure to organize tasks, prioritize with purpose, and collaborate effectively. When your work is visible and organized, it's easier to manage your time, reduce stress, and stay focused on what matters most.

To bring more clarity to your work and build stronger self-management habits, get started with Asana today.

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Frequently asked questions about self-management